No more Mr Nice Guy
I have decided: I am too nice.
Generally I always try to be pleasant, friendly and calm to people I work with, no matter what disasters are unfolding. I always thought that getting angry was counter productive and that if people liked me then they would try extra hard to do what I asked of them.
I have revised that opinion. For the first time in ages I actually got cross. I raised my voice on the phone and suddenly things started to happen.
I suspect that part of the reason was the shock factor. Nice little smiley Rach turns into hard uncompromising bitch might have been a surprise for the unsuspecting Contractor, but it worked.
I will be storing this particular weapon up my sleeve for future use, so watch out...
Generally I always try to be pleasant, friendly and calm to people I work with, no matter what disasters are unfolding. I always thought that getting angry was counter productive and that if people liked me then they would try extra hard to do what I asked of them.
I have revised that opinion. For the first time in ages I actually got cross. I raised my voice on the phone and suddenly things started to happen.
I suspect that part of the reason was the shock factor. Nice little smiley Rach turns into hard uncompromising bitch might have been a surprise for the unsuspecting Contractor, but it worked.
I will be storing this particular weapon up my sleeve for future use, so watch out...
1 Comments:
Being mean is definitely the way forward. It's a lesson i learnt pretty quickly when I started teaching! You've basically got to be a super bitch. It's actually quite fun sometimes!
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